Life is nt ruled by fate,neither is it by destiny but it is by YOU! What do i mean? Your life is ruled by you as you decided how to handle things and what to do with the daily happenings in your life,and nt others! If your life is ruled others,it would be miserable! You can't even decide what to do with the slightest happenings in your life,having to reply on others. Relying on others will nt get you anywhere. You should be the one controlling your own life and nt others! Others can't be by your side forever! Even your parents won't! Although relying on others takes some burden off your shoulder,your life would nt be lighten up! So, it's better to control your own life and nt let others decide for you! You will nt be able to push the responbilities and all the blame on others as you are the one deciding EVERYTHING! It may be tough sometimes but you get to lighten up you life by a trifle! Never blame others for the trouble and mess you have caused! It is nt fair to them by doing so as they do nt decide your life for YOU!